Have you thought about working from home? Internet-based businesses are becoming popular. I don't know how reliable they are, but you would be home with your child.

Babysit other children and teach them that a disabled child is nothing to be afraid of and they should learn that all humans have feelings and thoughts even if they don't know how to show it.

Apply as an aide at a school. The same school as your children would ensure that you'd be available almost all the days your children would have off.

Try working from home. You would never have to leave your home. Take a look at this site, and see if you think it would be for you. It is completely free.

my son's daycare is actually a woman's home in my ex's neighborhood. she is licensed and watches like 4 or 5 of the neighborhood kids at like 150 a kid a week.

i tried to get my ex to do that before we split but she was just too dag gone lazy to do it…

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You could do one of the two, teach other children like your daughter that are autistic. And just feel great that you are doing something great for other parents all you need is a big chalkboard,chalk, and of course some story telling books to read before a nap. Chalkboard is for stuff like ,dogs,birds,cats, house,car,t.v., Dr.'s,books and alot of parents will pay good money to know someone nice is taking care of their child or you can do the on line thing which I know nothing about but its worth a try.